Black Jews are not bridges. We are full participants.
By Samantha Robinson
I’m still learning how to stand in every part of who I am: a Black Jewish woman, raised by an Ashkenazi Jewish mother and a Black father.
Most of the time, these parts of my identity don’t feel fully integrated. Rather, they sit alongside each other, sometimes in tension, but rarely in a way that feels whole. At 25, I’m also still figuring out where I fit in the work of creating belonging. As a senior manager for Combined Jewish Philanthropies’ Center for Combating Antisemitism (CCA), I’m often among the youngest of voices in the room, navigating the balance between learning and leading.
It’s those very questions–about identity, belonging, and the work itself–that I packed with me last month when I traveled to Miami for the inaugural National Convening on Black-Jewish Alliance.
The gathering brought together more than 100 Black, Jewish, and Black-Jewish leaders from across the country to explore our shared challenges and imagine a more durable future for Black-Jewish partnership. On paper, it felt like the type of professional gathering I often find myself in: one focused on building relationships, strategy, and what comes next.
But once I arrived, I felt very quickly that this was different.
During an “Exodus Over Dinner”–our first formal sit-down of the convening–we were invited to give a eulogy for someone we had lost, sitting at tables with people who, for the most part, were still strangers. At my table, several of us spoke about our late fathers.
That intentional leap into vulnerability became the foundation for everything that followed. Once trust was established, we dove deep into the work: wedge-issue conversations, national strategy brainstorms, and moments of real disagreement without people pulling back from one another. The relational grounding and depth of those initial dinner conversations made it possible to stay present even when things got hard.
Early into the convening, CNN commentator Van Jones offered some guidance to the group: “When it gets hard to love, love harder.” His words didn’t feel like something said for effect. Rather, Jones’ call to action felt like something we were being asked to practice with each other, and in real time.
Over those next two days together, I worked to love harder, both in how I showed up for others and in how I showed up for myself.